The STRONG framework

When I began this journey of 50 for 50 I knew exactly what I wanted to achieve, yet my approach was vague. I jumped in enthusiastically, tackling tasks at random and celebrating early victories. But around the six-month mark, things shifted. The initial easy wins faded, leaving me in what can generously be described as a slog.

At this turning point, I paused to reflect. My loose methodology—guided by unwritten rules—needed structure. I combed through my notes, carefully identifying successful behaviors and pinpointing obstacles. I had my insights, but what now?

Influencers often have catchy acronyms for their frameworks, so I brainstormed names. Nothing stuck until I revisited an earlier entry that emphasized the concept of finishing strong—pushing forward even when victory seemed uncertain. That resonated deeply, inspiring the creation of the finish STRONG framework for goal setting and achievement.

Let’s dive into this empowering framework:

Start Small – Commit to doing just one thing each day to progress your goals. Even on your busiest days, five minutes is enough: read a page, sketch a quick idea, jot down tomorrow’s task. This daily action trains your mind, signaling that your goals matter. Eventually, you’ll instinctively feel the need to keep progressing, and skipping a day will feel like something vital is missing.

Transform Habits – Humans thrive on habits, which makes them powerful tools for change. Start small, choosing manageable habits. The book “Atomic Habits” emphasizes how tiny, incremental changes lead to remarkable transformations. Its key lesson—align your habits with your desired identity—deeply impacted me. While I learned that habits often take longer than the popularly cited 30 days to solidify, persistent effort eventually made these behaviors automatic, seamlessly integrating them into my daily routine.

Rebuild Mindset – Among the framework’s elements, mindset is pivotal. To achieve significant goals, you must reinvent how you see yourself—not as someone who might succeed, but as someone who will succeed. Shifting your self-perception eliminates room for hesitation. My mindset transformation was personal; embracing stoicism profoundly changed my worldview, strengthening my resolve and clarity.

Overcome Obstacles – Despite meticulous planning, setbacks are inevitable. Injuries, overwhelming workloads, illnesses, family obligations—each can derail your progress. But it’s not the obstacles themselves, rather your response, that defines your journey. “The Obstacle is the Way” articulates this beautifully: viewing challenges as opportunities to build resilience and strength. Its three-part framework—clearly perceiving obstacles, taking decisive action, and wholeheartedly accepting difficulties—helps cultivate an unwavering spirit and determination.

Never Quit – You will face moments of deep frustration, when progress stalls or even reverses. Giving up becomes tempting, rationalized by thoughts like, “Who would care if I quit?” The answer is simple: You would care. Abandoning your goals creates subtle self-doubt, convincing you that you lack perseverance. Resist that temptation. Slow down, adjust your timeline, but never surrender. Persistence ensures you ultimately achieve the greatness you envisioned.

Gather Data – Tracking progress became essential in my journey. Initially, I relied on a notebook (OneNote) for quick notes and recaps, keeping everything organized. But it was the Google Sheet that truly elevated my motivation. Each goal had its own tab, and a summary sheet visually tracked my progress through checkboxes and color-coded progress bars. Seeing bars turn blue at 100% completion sparked excitement, reinforcing accountability and highlighting areas needing immediate attention.

This finish STRONG framework transformed my approach from chaotic optimism into structured success, ensuring every step forward was intentional, meaningful, and enduring.

Goal Met – Start a Gratitude Journal

Now this one was a bit of a stretch. As I was looking for goals to round the total out to 50 this one kept popping up on a lot of the lists of goals people were setting. It seemed like a bit of pop psych or new age silliness but once I started doing some research (noted below) I saw that there are scientific papers backing up the practice and showing it has clear benefits.

I simply didn’t have the bandwidth to commit to a daily entry – but twice a week? I mean that’s doable. I was always able to come up with something I was grateful for that week or some kindness that came my way (or opportunity for me to show kindness – also very important) It really wasn’t too difficult and sometimes a bit of time would go by before I sat down and did it but the intent was there and I think that’s the point.

I’m not sure if there were any huge benefits I noticed but it did feel nice to remind myself of some of the awesome things I have in my life so I enjoyed doing this.

[Research]

Embarking on the practice of maintaining a gratitude journal can profoundly enhance your overall well-being. This simple yet powerful habit involves regularly recording aspects of your life for which you are thankful. Scientific research has consistently demonstrated that such a practice offers numerous psychological and physical benefits, making it a worthwhile endeavor for anyone seeking to improve their quality of life.

Psychological Benefits

One of the most significant advantages of keeping a gratitude journal is its positive impact on mental health. Regularly focusing on the positive aspects of life can lead to increased feelings of happiness and reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety. A systematic review and meta-analysis of 64 randomized clinical trials found that participants who engaged in gratitude interventions experienced greater feelings of gratitude, improved mental health, and fewer symptoms of anxiety and depression. Moreover, they reported a more positive mood and emotions. 

The act of writing down things you are grateful for shifts your attention away from negative thoughts and fosters a more optimistic outlook on life. This practice encourages mindfulness and helps break the cycle of rumination, which is often associated with depression and anxiety. By consciously acknowledging the positive elements in your life, you train your brain to focus on what brings joy and satisfaction, thereby enhancing overall mental health.

Physical Health Benefits

The benefits of gratitude journaling extend beyond mental health to encompass physical well-being. Research indicates that individuals who regularly practice gratitude experience better sleep quality, reduced blood pressure, and improved heart health. A study by UCLA Health highlighted that practicing gratitude can help with depression, anxiety, and stress, and also noted that the benefits of being thankful include improved sleep and heart health. 

Engaging in gratitude practices has been associated with a reduction in stress-related symptoms, which can have a direct impact on cardiovascular health. By promoting relaxation and reducing stress, gratitude journaling may contribute to lower blood pressure and a decreased risk of heart disease. Additionally, the positive emotions elicited by gratitude can lead to the release of endorphins, which act as natural painkillers and mood elevators.

Enhanced Relationships

Expressing gratitude can also strengthen your interpersonal relationships. When you regularly acknowledge and appreciate the kindness and support of others, it fosters a sense of connection and encourages reciprocal positive behavior. This can lead to deeper, more meaningful relationships and a robust social support network.

A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that gratitude is linked to prosocial behavior and can enhance social bonds. Participants who expressed gratitude were more likely to engage in helpful behaviors and report stronger relationships. By recognizing and appreciating the contributions of others, you not only enhance your own well-being but also create a positive feedback loop that benefits your social circle.

Neuroscientific Evidence

From a neuroscientific perspective, practicing gratitude can lead to lasting changes in brain function. Research has shown that gratitude activates regions in the brain associated with reward, morality, and positive social interactions. A study highlighted by Mindful.org noted that the science of gratitude shows it can support greater health, happiness, and wisdom in ourselves and our communities. 

Regular engagement in gratitude exercises can enhance the brain’s sensitivity to future experiences of gratitude, making it easier to access positive emotions even during challenging times. This neuroplasticity suggests that the more you practice gratitude, the more attuned your brain becomes to recognizing the good in your life, leading to sustained improvements in mental health and well-being.

Implementing a Gratitude Journal

Starting a gratitude journal is a straightforward process. Set aside a few minutes each day or week to reflect and write down things you are grateful for. These can range from significant events to simple pleasures. Consistency is key; regular practice maximizes the benefits. Some studies suggest that writing in a gratitude journal once or twice a week can be more effective than daily entries, as it prevents the activity from becoming routine and losing its impact.

Incorporating prompts can also enhance the depth of your reflections. Consider questions like, “What unexpected kindness did I experience today?” or “What aspect of my health am I most grateful for?” By diversifying your entries, you can gain a more comprehensive appreciation of the positive facets of your life.

Conclusion

Incorporating a gratitude journal into your routine can lead to substantial improvements in both mental and physical health. By consciously focusing on the positive aspects of your life, you can foster a more optimistic outlook, enhance your relationships, and even rewire your brain for increased happiness. Given the extensive scientific evidence supporting its benefits, starting a gratitude journal is a simple yet effective step toward a healthier, more fulfilling life.